The idiom “blood is thicker than water” is a cliché but remains a fact that most Africans value and find difficult to do away with. A supposed female suicide bomber tells how her love to her family pulled her back from blowing herself in the Internally Displaced People (IDPs) camp she was sent to by Boko Haram insurgence.
She certainly did not know it would come to the extent of taking her own life when the blood shedding group took her in with the promise of helping her solve what she called “spiritual problem”.
The Northerner, who identified herself as Hauwa (not her real name), was one of the three female suicides that penetrated the displaced people camp in Dikwa, Borno State on Tuesday 9, February 2016. Other two blew up themselves and 58 others in the camp as Hauwa (the third of them) went missing.
Recently, however, the missing suicide bomber came out to reveal what lured her to join the Islamist militant and why she refused to detonate the third bomb she was carrying.
According to a BBC reporter Anne Soy, who has being talking to her— Hauwa stopped the execute the mission because her family was in the camp.
Here is Hauwa story according to Anne;
“Hauwa, not her real name, doesn’t know her age, but she looks 17 or 18. She had been held by Boko Haram for more than a year when her captors suggested the plan to attack the Dikwa camp.
In return for carrying out their mission, the three girls were told they would go to paradise. But Hauwa knew that she had to defy them.
“I said ‘No’, since my mum is residing in Dikwa, I won’t go and kill people there. I would rather go and stay with my family, even if I die there,” she tells me through a translator.
“Both her parents and her siblings, except for one brother who had been captured with her, were staying in the camp at Dikwa in Borno state, along with about 50,000 others forced from their homes.
Hauwa explains how she ended up being lured into joining the group—“I had spiritual problems and so the Boko Haram told me they could help get rid of them,” she says.
We do not know exactly what Hauwa was suffering from, but these so-called “evil spirits” had caused her to soil herself and even put her hand into a fire. Whatever the reason, she saw Boko Haram as the answer to her problems, and they took her in.
She remembers a typical day living with the militants. “We were living in grass-thatched houses. When my husband was around, I cooked three times a day… the men would steal meat and bring it for us to cook.”
After a while, Hauwa separated from her husband and then got remarried.
Her second husband then ran away and when she refused to take a third husband, the group suggested their plan:
“They said since I refused to re-marry, I should take the bomb,” she says.
The Dikwa camp for internally displaced persons (IDPs) was 85km (50 miles) north-east of Maiduguri, the state capital of Borno and the birthplace of Boko Haram.
Hauwa knew it well and it was not far from the place she was being held by the militants, so the night before the attack was due to take place, she sneaked out very early in the morning.
Her plan was to alert her family and others staying at Dikwa of the impending attack.
But she was too late.
By the time she reached Dikwa camp, the two suicide bombers had already struck.